Its Going to Take All of Us  4 Men on Being Allies at Work

Its Going to Take All of Us 4 Men on Being Allies at Work GALVANIZE 2018 Making Womens Resource Groups Powerful, a summit hosted by Fairygodboss, focused on empowering women in the workplace. But as Fairygodboss President Romy Newman noted in her opening remarks, engaging men is necessary on this path toward empowerment. Many men consider themselves allies in the fight for gender parity in the workplace, but most dont know what concrete steps to take in order to accelerate progress.I think as women we need to be a little more overt about what we expect from our male counterparts, Salesforce President and Chief People Officer Cindy Robbins said in her keynote discussion. Men are in the standort of power, and they will be for a while we need them.Four men joined GALVANIZEs Men as Allies panel to discuss how women can ask for help and how men can actively and effectively advocate for more equal workplaces.Herb Johnson, Chief Diversity Inclusion Officer at Michelin North America, echoed Robbins sentiment for overt conversation. Talk to me, talk to us. Create an environment for a frank and open conversation, he said.Stephen Orban, General Manager at AWS Marketplace, told the crowd, Coach us Continue to hold me accountable and hold my feet to the fire. Im sure there are biases I need coaching on its unconscious until its conscious.Matthew Richards, Director of Talent Acquisition at Cognizant, meditated on the importance of people across genders, races, religions and organizations working together to reach workplace parity.Its going to take all of us, said Richards. Ive had to reach out to groups for information and data about achieving diversity... because it can be hard to get that support internally without providing data.Meanwhile, Darius Smith, Director of Talent Marketing and Employee Engagement at Brother International Corporation, spoke about the importance of allies staying in the fight even when it gets hard or controversial.Women are power, he said. Stay in the fight with me, even when it gets tough.All of the panelists recognized that male allyship should not begin and end with women. Instead, they argued, men need to take personal responsibility and actively confront others about biases.Its important to be an ally personally and professionally. When we can get men to stop leaving their hearts in the parking lot, we can make real change, said Johnson. You have to make it personal. Men are stereotypically competitive I ask them, Would you want your daughter to be a loser? Would you want your sister to be a loser?Orban also noted the importance of confronting men to fight biases. He shared that he welches once in a meeting discussing a female colleague when a female executive changed his entire perspective on how he talks about women at work.She asked Would you feel differently about this if she were a man? There was an amazing lesson there, because I watched someone put themselves on the line to advocate for someone in a way that ma de everyone in the room uncomfortable.He said that now, he doesnt hesitate to call out men when he sees them acting on unconscious biases.Now, Im the one to ask. Now that Ive become predictable about that, people have changed how they prepare for meetings.I have a 17 year old, and I have to push back on him about some things, Richards added. Thats my job. And sometimes he talks rude immediately. And then its not even talking about what we were talking about, but about how were talking to each other. I feel like thats how this is its about being a person.Richards realizes that his actions are just a small stepping stone toward achieving a gender equal society, and says other male allies need to realize this, too.Im not purporting to be the voice for women, but I am a voice. It is important for me to speak up and advocate for women in a meeting. I think I can be just one small piece of the puzzle.Its the least I can do, and its not enough, echoed Orban. We have to do something about i t or it wont get better.